Don't Be Mean!
Written By: Sandy Merz
"Don't Be Mean" anchors our class. Here is what students find best about the rule:
- Students actually use it
- It's not hurtful
- No one puts down themselves
- You get treated with respect
- People try to follow it
- No one makes fun of you
- People aren't mean like in other classes
- Goes for everyone
- It's straightforward and promotes friendliness
Here how it works:
I introduce the rule on the first day of class and make it unconditional. Even when it's not easy, even when someone else is mean first, even when it's not intended: Don't Be Mean. Then I say "we'll take up everything else as it comes on along."
The second day, we repeat the rule.
Sometime later, I make a "Don't Be Mean" poster that everyone who's willing to try not to be mean can sign.
